What is “Pure Love?”
What is “Pure Love?”
By Waleed Tariq
What is basically love? In your mind it would appear as a relation more than a friend between a boy and a girl, but in real terms it is way more than this. Its the feeling which once enters into your heart never vanishes, it never reduces in fact it increases second by second. It is made stronger with the small small wonderful moments of your life, When these moments are all combined together just as the little rain droplets are combined together to form a water glass, by these moments you make your love stronger. It turns your life to a living Heaven, it has no end like a circle has. Its all about compromising and sacrificing yourself, your needs and wants just to fulfill the wishes of your soul mate. Its not searching or heading towards your happiness, indeed it is sacrificing your happiness to make your soul mate achieve his/her happiness. Love is a complete fantasy world in which there is just a couple together with no involvement in worldly matters. But just as the eye opens while you are dreaming and ruins everything you were seeing, likewise small small misunderstandings ruins your relationship,your life and your destructs your fantasy world completely. Love can not be cured by herbs.
Love is like the wind, you can feel it but you cant see it. When you have a different feeling about someone than a normal routine feeling, here this means that you are about to climb the 1st step of the ladder of love. Love never changes people/someone from their roots, it turns your acts, nature and character to a more positive side. It is when two souls combine together as one and they function as one, that is if one gets hurt, the other feels the pain. It also fill patience, tolerance and respect in your heart for everyone. Another major step on the ladder of love is when you start liking the things you have always disliked, Love purely “sacrificing”. If you don’t like anthing about your partner then don’t look for that one or ten acts, look for those thousands of acts that made you melted you and made you fall in his/her arms. This relation of “True Love” is linked with the hearts and nature not by the looks and style of one’s. Love never changes with weather, fashion, style, outlooks and season, it remains the same from where it started. The feelings once entered never dies or goes away. The desperation of being with one another increases second by second.
Love is like the painting in which when more colors are added, the more beautiful outcome it will result in, likewise in your love life, making and remembering more beautiful moments increases the outlook of your love. Love shares everything, one’s happiness, sorrows, problems with one another, it is never jealous or conceited, it is always patient. It is the situation in which there is no turning back once you’ve made your decision, there’s no way out of this world, cheating never existed nor will it ever exist in this world of pure love. Patience is another successful act of this life, it is a thing or a feeling which creates a willingness in a person of achieving everything, to be on top, to be successful, to be nicely reputated, to behave well with others and in helping them out, and this patience is always created by the huge support of your soul mate, he/she is the actual person who creates it in you. Here at this level your partner/soul mate becomes everything for you, your life, your aim and goal. Over here comes a situation where most of the people leave their parents, but what i sincerely feel is that your parent’s position and status is always higher than your partner, although parents and partner, they both stand on very different position but nowadays alot of people don’t get to know this. Forgetting your parents, your brothers and sisters is not what we call PURE LOVE. Indeed a pure and a very true partner brings you closer to your love ones, to your family, and that’s LOVE, your true soul mate/partner would never take you away from your parents, brothers and sisters, your relatives and from your friends. Love never deals with anyone’s sins or it never exploits anyone’s life or their futures.
The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread. Those of you who went through this article and they are in this love world would definitely agree with this statement and When love is not madness, it is not love. It is an ocean of emotions.
In the end i would like to add that PURE LOVE is when one leaves but the other still follows, It is when one follows that person just like his/her shadow. It is when one denies but the other still tries, he/she never give up hope. It is when one’s attitude changes but the other still stands at the same position looking at his/her face politely with a smile on his face and with the true love falling from his eyes. Love is an act of endless forgiveness.
This is all about PURE LOVE that i have always realised and learned in my life until now.
Waleed Bin Tariq Mughal
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