Go From Dating to Commitment - 3 Steps Toward Love

Go From Dating to Commitment - 3 Steps Toward Love
By Tina L. Jones

Would you like to take someone you are seeing from dating to commitment? Are there any secrets to sealing the deal in love? What is the best way to help a guy see that you are a serious prospect? If you want to go from dating to commitment, here are a few steps that you can take.

Step 1 - Let things happen at their own pace.

One of the most difficult things to do during that initial excitement stage is to be patient. However, it’s also one of the most important steps. As much as you might want to jump right into something serious, it’s such a big step that you should take your time.

The early infatuation stage feels so good that it’s hard to imagine the relationship getting tough. But it will happen. So try to take things slowly, keep the pressure off, and concentrate on learning about each other.

Step 2 - Get interested in the real him.

Another aspect of the early stages with someone that you are falling for is that you tend to see him in the best possible light. Everything he does might seem wonderful at first. But when you go from dating to commitment, eventually you will come back down to earth.

This doesn’t mean you need to try to be cynical. It just means that you should be realistic. That way, you can make rational decisions. You also won’t be taken by surprise when you need to deal with the tougher parts of the serious relationship.

Step 3 - Be reserved.

Part of taking things slowly is to not tell him all about your feelings. This is not to say that you should stifle yourself or your feelings. Just be aware that you might be getting carried away right now, so sometimes you can temper your expressions of love.

A guy who is also falling hard will find a way to tell you so. And that means that you should look (or listen) for him to express himself. Don’t merely tell him your feelings first in hopes that he will reciprocate.

No relationship is easy, and things can be delicate right at the beginning. But couples go from dating to commitment all the time, and you can, too.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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