Make a Man Fall in Love With You - The Secret Lies in 4 Words
The answer on how to make a man fall in love with you is short, sweet and to the point:
Become His Best Friend
Advice you often hear is: become more attractive; build up self-esteem; show your sexiness, etc. All of which is necessary. But, you could be the most beautiful, sexiest woman in the world and still not find a man to love you.
You see, true love is deeper than outward appearance. Outward prettiness can attract; but it can’t necessarily hold.
Genuine love creates its own sexiness without being overt. It exists automatically between a man and woman who emit chemistry just by being together. Genuine love is much more than sex.
Real love knows its soul mate. A soul mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring out the best in us. And that goes back to being a man’s best friend. It’s what makes a man fall in love. And here’s why…
To fall in love couples must first establish a relationship. A relationship is a special bond between two people who care for each other.
But how is that foundation for caring built? Upon what is it built? The two elements are: friendship and time. Let’s look at friendship first.
Friendship is a ‘history’ of two people who connect in ways that share common interests, foster intimate communication, complement growth and development, and encourage support. It’s built upon trust and loyalty with someone you know will be there for you in good times and in bad times.
Someone who understands your ups and downs. Someone who knows your strengths and weaknesses and still cares. This person is your alter ego, a confidant, a person who’s been there over the long haul.
It takes time to develop a friendship. It takes time to get to know the needs, desires, hopes, ambitions, likes and dislikes of another person upon which to establish a friendship. Once established, these are the bonds between couples that lead into verbal intimacy.
Love between two people who know how to be verbally intimate with each other will grow dramatically. This is when you get deep and talk about all issues. This is where the negative issues can surface because at this point everything has to be laid out on the table. This is when you talk about the good, bad and the ugly as it were.
When the couple determines they speak the “same language” as it were, they begin to work together in union as one team. This unity of heart, soul and spirit bonds them as soul mates.
The chemistry ignited between partners turns their souls on physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The only way this can be accomplished is by “knowing” each other’s inner workings that bond with ours in shared outlook and purpose.
Once a man sees and understands that YOU are his confidant, his best friend, he’ll want you permanently in his life. This bonding in deep friendship that develops into genuine love is what makes a man fall in love with you.
